With sufficient spandex, anyone can be a superhero. *hugs* I'm glad some stresses are being reduced... just remember, do what you can, don't do what you can't, and don't worry about not doing what you can't. And no punishing! We all think you're just swell, so no fair you thinking you're not. (also, you totally need to come visit my house again sometime, maybe even when you could actually meet some of the rest of my family ^^)