SICK

[amalthya]

... And fucking ballsy

So sometimes you have a mini-romance with someone, and it doesn't work out. It happens. But if it's not messy, and you're all friends with each other, and you still spend time together and have fun, there's no reason to make it ugly.

I guess I just need to unload this, and it shouldn't bother to stress over it considering how wonderfully things in life are going right now. But I'll just mention it for posterity.

A friend has been purposefully excluding me from group events, despite the time we've spent together recently being fun. Which feels crappy, but I can live with it. It's okay. Not everyone needs to enjoy spending time with me. Promise.

I recently discovered, however, that he'd e-stalked a friend I'd introduced him to last time we were out. A girl. One of my best friends. Not only does it take extra effort to e-stalk someone, but does it have to be someone I know? Behind my back? Ignoring me but macking on my friends?

I guess more than the anger, there's the hurt. Or the frustration. Or the feeling of disrespect.



...And the hurt.


Sometimes, people just suck.

Comments

[rosefox]

Wow. Classy.

[kinfae.livejournal.com]

Sometimes e-stalking people is easier these days than the actual effort of say, asking for a phone number in RL would be.

I have no idea who you're talking about, so no idea on the level of hurt.

But I'm sorry that you feel that way.

[techempage.livejournal.com]

~hugs~

[gatsbys-regret.livejournal.com]

Actually, wouldn't it take less effort to e-stalk someone, than to stalk them r/t?

At least, that's my experience...

[franklymydear.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry that had to happen! You can never predict the future when you bring two people together - and it really sucks when the result is suckiness. :(

*pets*

[slipjig.livejournal.com]

Oh, ye gods' golden gravy boat.... *kicks the e-stalker*